Be A Troublemaker

April 18, 2018

Last week, I went to a lunch and saw someone who thinks I called him out as being sexist. We were in line for food at the same time, and I said hello. He looked down and around, and anywhere but at me. When I introduced a topic of conversation, letting him know I had mailed something to his office, he said, “WHAT?!” and walked away.

He looked very uncomfortable.


I felt a heavy weight in my stomach: I’m a troublemaker. He hates me because I’m a troublemaker, I thought. It’s not even fair because I didn’t even mean to call him out as sexist . . . the first time.


Then, I was talking with a colleague today.  She mentioned a situation of hers in which a man did something inappropriate and she hadn’t wanted to be a troublemaker. Suddenly, I saw my situation differently.




Let’s talk about it in terms of race:


If I’m in a room with a friend, and a colleague makes a racist comment about that friend, I want to be a troublemaker. I want to tell that person to stop.


I don’t want to be a rude person. I want to be firm and calm. But, if it is troublemaking to correct discrimination, then count me in.


I offer the same friendship to myself and any other woman. If it is troublemaking to take care of us, our safety, and our dignity, then count me in.


I am a troublemaker.


Will you join me?




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